queerer things were yet to come
I'm Cobehn. 19 yo.
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Story 4: Sleeplessly Embracing (a remix by clipping.) by alt-J

This is the best thing ive heard like all week or maybe all month

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Paprika // Directed by Satoshi Kon


Star Trek Into Darkness (2013)

ill never forget that my friend told me my teacher said the word they’d use to describe me was “jaded” lmao

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things im tired of hearing about: book to movie adaptations of stupid fantasy books and how the movie sucked compared to the book

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realtalk tho if youve ever used a coke freestyle machine you know that its garbage and is terrible

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These are forms of male aggression that only women see. But even when men are afforded a front seat to harassment, they don’t always have the correct vantage point for recognizing the subtlety of its operation. Four years before the murders, I was sitting in a bar in Washington, D.C. with a male friend. Another young woman was alone at the bar when an older man scooted next to her. He was aggressive, wasted, and sitting too close, but she smiled curtly at his ramblings and laughed softly at his jokes as she patiently downed her drink. ‘Why is she humoring him?’ my friend asked me. ‘You would never do that.’ I was too embarrassed to say: ‘Because he looks scary’ and ‘I do it all the time.’

Women who have experienced this can recognize that placating these men is a rational choice, a form of self-defense to protect against setting off an aggressor. But to male bystanders, it often looks like a warm welcome, and that helps to shift blame in the public eye from the harasser and onto his target, who’s failed to respond with the type of masculine bravado that men more easily recognize.

(Photo Credit: US Uncut)


Life Tip: Don’t allow Tumblr to become your primary/only source for morality. Remember, this is the site which had many people genuinely believe that they can get unlimited chocolate just by slicing it a certain way. I know I certainly wouldn’t want these people dictating my worldview for me.

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